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Helllooooo there! Don’t worry; I am no ghost - merely a living human like the rest of you. My name is Ronald Summers and I am here on a passing visit to this strange and unusually exciting online paranormal community as I feel this is the perfect place to share and hopefully get some answers for what I can really only describe as a tomato related paranormal experience.

Until very recently I’ve not been a big believer in the whole “whooooo paranormal” thing. I remember once back in the late 80s I joined forces with my then good friend (and fellow disbeliever) Martin Ballswick to start a petition against the BBC showing television shows on the subject. I am sure you will be happy to learn that the petition failed miserably due to a severe lack of signatures (and one very angry lady who decided that the petition looked a lot better in a number of pieces). Despite my misfortune I stayed a non-believer until just over a week ago.

For the last 9 nights I have had the same strange dream followed by waking in the morning to find one of the tomatoes from the fridge downstairs has miraculously appeared on the floor at the foot of our bed. Normally I would have a rational explanation but on this occasion I can’t for the life of me explain how this is happening.

Much to my irritation, my partner Joan is entirely convinced that our tomato-ghost (a term I coined) is in fact me and describes what I have been experiencing as “a re-occurring nightmare” combined with “some sort of sleep-walking incident”. (Despite the fact she hasn’t actually seen me sleep-walk). I have told her many times that I have never been known to sleepwalk in the past and even went so far as to arrange a phone call with my foster-mother to confirm that I didn’t sleep-walk as a child. If I am entirely honest, Joan isn’t often wrong but I really do feel on this particular occasion that I am the one in the right.

Joan tells me that during my dream I lash out “as if trying to kill a bear” and that I also make a strange gurgling sound for sometimes “up to two bloody hours” She is entirely fed up of it and decided last night that sleeping on the sofa is something she should have been doing since the very first night. Since the 2nd day I have been making sure I kept a small notepad (far too small for my liking but a larger one will apparently spoil the look of the room) on my bed-side table so that as soon as I wake up and while it is still fresh in my mind I can write down everything I remember. Unfortunately as of yet I haven’t been able to remember enough to make any sort of sense of.

I have also started noticing a few other strange things (that obviously Joan disbelieves) such as the curtains in our bedroom now appearing to be very slightly darker shade of red than they were before. In addition to this I have found that the corners of the paper on my notepad have begun to curl up by themselves overnight. I am unsure whether any of these occurrences are in any way related.

I feel like I am going crazy and need a little re-assurance from people in the know that what I have been experiencing could in fact be classed as some sort of paranormal activity. Has anyone else for example experienced anything similar to this?

I thank you in advance of any responses

Ronald Summers


Hello there,

Firstly I just want to say I think it’s a real shame that you ever campaigned against paranormal television shows, I hate it when people aren’t able to see beyond what they know and open their minds to the possibility that we, humans, don’t know everything. But anyway, at least you’ve opened your mind now. I’m glad about that!

You say you’ve had the same dream for the last nine nights but can’t remember it – would you mind elaborating further on the nature of the dream? What were your feelings and emotions when you woke? Did you wake with a start? Any further details might be helpful.

As for offering reassurance that what you have been experiencing IS paranormal – I’m afraid I can’t do that without many many more details. I wouldn’t be surprised if Joan is right and these experiences are actually physical rather than spiritual. But I wouldn’t like to say either way right now.

You could try keeping a diary of events during the day and see if there is something different – have you changed your diet, job, lifestyle, etc. in any way?

Give us some more details Ronald!!!

Trixy


Welcome to the boards!

I don’t want to disappoint you but based on what you’ve told us so far your experiences don’t seem to be the result of paranormal activity. I’m only saying this because I’ve never heard of anything like this before and I’ve been involved in spirituality and mediumship for twenty years.

That said, I am not conceited enough to believe I know everything, and maybe this is a very strange phenomena. But I doubt it.

Can you gather any evidence of what’s been happening? Have you got a video camera you could leave filming in you bedroom (or next to the fridge)? This should give you answers.

Good luck!

Julian


Your poor wife!! I can’t blame her for sleeping on the sofa! Have you seen a doctor about this? Sounds like sleep disturbance and night terrors to me, not a “wooooh paranormal thing” as you so nicely put.

Barry


I suggest you have a look around the boards and find any other occurrences of this nature (try searching for ‘poltergeist’, ‘objects moving’ or similar terms.).

Once you’ve had a good search then you might be in a better position to guess at what this might be.

Doreen


Have you taken any photos around your house recently? Take some snaps on any old camera and see if you get any evidence of a spirit presence – small round balls of light (called ‘orbs’) can often be seen if a spirit person is present. This can be the first stage of a physical manifestation.

As Julian suggested you could also try leaving a video camera recording while you sleep to see where the tomatoes are coming from.

Helen


Why don’t you sit in your bedroom alone and ask out loud for some proof; another tomato, maybe some lettuce, perhaps a cucumber, bit of mayo. Then get two pieces of bread – bingo!

If you haven’t got a ghost you’ll at least have a nutritious snack!

Paul


Hello again and thank you all for your very swift responses. It really is nice to know that if my life-partner can’t take me seriously then at least I can turn to a crowd of internet strangers for help.

In reply to Trixy I must say that in retrospect and after my recent supernatural experiences I can join you in feeling that it’s a shame I was ever involved in such a petition. In my defence, my friend Martin Ballswick was the one with the initial idea. Even at the time I felt that his involvement wasn’t so much about his feelings about the paranormal but more to do with the bitterness he felt when he was sacked from his job at the BBC. If it wasn’t for the tragic and fatal balloon accident that he and his (mail-order) bride were involved in last year, I would like to think I would have got back in contact with Martin and told him about my recent experiences.

I like Julian’s idea about using a video camera to try and record the movement of the tomatoes. Unfortunately the ageing computer I am using right now happens to be the most advanced and technological device we have in the house. Ever since I failed to set the VCR correctly to record “Pretty Woman” I was effectively banned from spending any of our (my) hard earned money on any “silly electronic wizardry” as Joan so nicely puts it. To be fair to Joan (I don’t want to slate her too much to complete strangers) she probably made a good decision when she banned me – I am pretty damn awful when it comes to anything with more than 3 buttons. Unfortunately Joan got more than a little upset when I mentioned I wanted to put a video-camera in our bedroom. She completely got the wrong end of the stick and said    “you should have married Violet if you’re into that sort of thing”. I am pretty sure I also heard her mutter “pervert” under her breath before she shut the front door.

Helen’s idea however regarding taking photos is something I can do without making any purchases. If I remember correctly I have at least 10 shots left on one of the disposable cameras Joan and I brought back from our holiday in Bognor Regis last year. Well I say holiday, more like overnight trip combined with food poisoning. I didn’t know you couldn’t eat pork when it was pink, I thought it would be juicier, like steak.

If I happen to see any of these “orbits” once I have the photos developed, what should I do next?

Ronald Summers


Hello again Ron,

When you have the photos developed you need to look at them closely for any objects that were not visible to the naked eye when you took the picture. You can see some really good orb (not orbit!) photos here <<link>>.

If there are some orbs present in your pictures, and you would like to try and help any spirit residing in you house, your next step would be to contact a medium in your area. You can find a list of accredited mediums here <<link>>.

It will pay to remember, however, that if you see what you consider to be an orb, it may not be a spirit. And vice versa; if you do not see any orbs then it doesn’t necessarily mean you don’t have a spirit.

When you take the photos, try to open your mind and be as inviting as you can to the possible spirit. Some people advise against trying to communicate with astral beings if you do not know what you’re doing, others would say that would be the best way of getting results. I’ll leave it to your judgement.

It might also pay to get another disposable camera (do you need to check it with Joan?!) so that you can take snaps all around your house at various times of the day and night. In the meantime you could try doing some research on your house and find out if anything may have happened there that could result in a spirit wanting to stick around.

Let us know how you get on.

Helen


Hello for what is likely to be the last time.

I’ve only been bloody sleepwalking haven’t I; Joan tells me that she saw me last night. I wish I could say that I don’t believe her but she made me take a quick trip to Boots in town today. I walked in holding a disposable camera and walked out looking at a photo of me, eyes shut standing next to the fridge.

Joan looks like she’s had the time of her life proving me wrong. She thoroughly enjoyed describing just how ironic she thought it was that she used the disposable camera I was going to be using.

I can’t quite believe that this whole paranormal saga is over. I never thought I would say this but I feel slightly saddened now that I know we definitely don’t have a ghost in the house. I liked it before when I wasn’t sure what to think.

I want to thank everybody for their great responses despite no longer being able to use any of the helpful information they contain.

Your good friend Ronald Summers


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